Have you ever had an argument where you just became desperate to win? It could be out of pride or because you didn’t want someone to get the final word. In these types of arguments, you bring up anything to come out victorious. You can bring up so much past or current drama that you can’t even remember what you were originally fighting about. All you know is that you just strained a relationship with your best friend or family member.  Insults get thrown around with the intention to kill instead of harm. Why do we do this in arguments? Whenever I argue with someone important to me, I feel compelled to say things I know would make them speechless. Things I know that they would hate me for. According to Psychology Today, an American media organization focused on psychology and human behavior, “There are an infinite variety of strategies for winning an argument, but only a few motives driving the compulsion to win, the most prevalent being the desire to avoid humiliation, punishment,...