There are typically three types of social behaviors amongst people: being an introvert (those who like to stay in and are not big on socializing), being an extrovert (those who are more outgoing and prefer to be around people) and being an ambivert (those who are capable of switching on and off between being outgoing and having alone time). Introverts are often seen as quiet, timid people who need to speak up more, but this is not always the case, and being introverted is not as bad as some people make it seem.

     Wanting to be alone is not a bad thing. Some people burn out easier than others or do not have the energy to always be around people and should not be judged for not wanting the same things as their extroverted friends. Wanting to go home or not wanting to go do something with everybody else does not make someone lame. In fact, it can make a person more outspoken than usual since they seem to have to constantly defend themselves as to why they do or do not want to do something. They constantly seem to have to be putting their foot down and setting boundaries with others because they may not be comfortable doing something a more extroverted person is.

       “Why are you so quiet?” is a question introverted people are frequently asked, and to be honest, it is no one else’s business. Sometimes there is nothing to say; sometimes not stepping on anyone’s toes is a factor. Being quieter than most seems to be made out as a bad thing. But why should introverted people be punished for not wanting to talk? Why does everyone seem to try and push their shy friends out of their shell or comfort zones?

       People should stop trying to change others to fit their standards or personalities. Again, sometimes there is nothing to add to a conversation. Sometimes people burn out in social situations faster than others, but that is no reason for them to be judged or pressured by their peers. The sooner we can accept everyone for who they are personality-wise, the sooner we will all be at peace.